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I won't flirt with you but start with a hi and then move on to making friends with you. That sound good to you?

Sure.

What is it like to "work out"? I mean isn't it tiring? I just can't find the motivation to start doing so.

Would you believe me when I say once you do it once, twice, thrice, your body naturally will crave for the work out?
If you need motivation, don't dream big first. Have small, achievable goals. You can start by simply running 2.4km every Monday. It takes you 20 minutes. Don't bother about anything. Just run 2.4km every Monday. You'll quickly get into the groove and feel naturally motivated. Maybe then Monday isn't enough. Okay, let's do squats on Wednesday. How many do you want to do? 20? 60? Do that. Every week your goal is to simply hit 2.4km on Monday, and 60 squats on Wednesday.
The point is to have smaller, more frequent checkpoints, and then make it routine.

What are your thoughts of a guy who is single at 39 and still haven't found a partner. Does it necessary means he is not straight?

It would be presumptuous. Some people are perfectly fine being single their whole life.

Do you not recieve hate questions or you just don't answer them? Haha

To be honest, they are quite far and few in between.

how did you accept it; the fact that you were homosexual? was everyone supportive ?

I've always had an inkling that I was gay. It was very evident with the many boys I've had crushes on. Never really had the same feeling with girls.
I just went on thinking I was straight, or bisexual in my teens, despite surfing gay porn and fantasising of men. Homosexuality was a very foreign concept in my family.
Only in the army when I met my first proper gay friend did I accept I was gay. I could then be comfortable talking about it, to anyone.
My friends were supportive, even the seemingly straight homophobic ones. I guess I was lucky because we've always had good relations, and when I came out I didn't change my behaviour.

Has there ever been a point in your life where there was a big divide between your identity, values and how you were actually living?

Definitely. Many times in my teenage years, just like everyone else.
My issues were largely about reconciling religious and cultural values and the world outside.

When he is older, do you think you will be generous to your newphie? What things do you think you wouldwnjoy sharing/giving to him?

I don't know. I expect us to have at most a cordial silent relationship, mostly because I'm quite stand-offish to most people.
But I won't be surprised if I'll be giving him advice as he grows older.

Yes it dose

No, it doesn't. Broken marriages, dysfunctional families, divorces and marriages by name. It will be foolish to think marriages automatically grant you lifelong companionship.
Does a couple need to marry to validate their companionship? I don't think so. It is the depth of the relationship that matters.

are you planning to get married to a girl?

No. I am gay. Even if gay marriage is legal, I've no intention to get married.

Your English is good Audi! Ways to improve??

Read a lot and consciously reflect on your use of language.
Reminds me I need to start reading again.

hello so sorry to bother you so late at night (assuming you're in the same timezone as i am) but you appeared on my news feed and you say that you write? writing and reading and just simply lit is fascinating & i was wondering if perhaps there was something you had written that i would like to read?

Actually, it's more underwhelming than that. The only writing I do is for film, and the nonsense I post online. I used to have a blog, and even kept a diary of short stories and quotations I thought of in my head. However I don't keep track of anything I've ever written.
I have never published anything or have any interest in going that way. So sorry to disappoint.

Have you ever wanted to learn martial art like silat?

I've actually taken silat classes before as a kid. My first martial art was Hapkido. Then it was Silat for a very short while. I didn't like the teacher.
In my teens I was dedicated to Aikido, and I absorbed many of its philosophies into my life. One important one was to 'follow the force'. I got up till brown belt, before I got busy with poly.
The last art I took was under my mentor. His father used to run a kungfu school in Singapore called Da Tou Pai He, or something like that. And he has been practicing the White Crane style of kungfu as a child. My mentor could use a bullwhip and snipe a cigarette out of someone's mouth.
He took me under his wing, along with teaching me how to choreograph fights for movie screens. It was very old school. Bamboo sticks, rocks, raw beans and pure repetition. But I digress.
The philosophies of Aikido and Kungfu has guided me along for many years. My mentor played a huge part as well. It was very little about fighting and how quickly you can throw a punch. It was always about discipline, patience, and self-control. It was always about you and your inner self.

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I think I would flirt with you rather than your "younger friends" hehe

That's nice. You'd be hard... pressed... to get me to flirt back with an anonymous profile.

You seem matured, compared to your younger, hornier friends

Compared to my friends of the same age, I am the immature one.

what do you miss most about your teenage awkward angsty years?

Nothing. I hated my whole time in secondary school.

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