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I am transitioning MTF. Any advice?

Sadly, I am not well-read enough on this matter to say much. Whatever it is, kudos on being brave.

aside from the sexual curiousity, idk if its just a mere infatuation or a genuine attraction coz most prolly im just lonely. im not sure if i need or want him in my life cause all these requires huge commitment and im afraid i dont have the time and money to "service" this r/s. Idw to hurt anyone.

sgpgaze
I think when you see this as a missed opportunity to strike off your checklist of experiences (cuddles, hugs, etc) then maybe you need to reflect on what your idea of romance and love is. To me, that isn't genuinely love per se, because your importance isn't the person himself, but your checklist. As far as it is conceded, it doesn't matter who the person is... but as long as you manage to cross off your list. Don't you feel that's a little bit off?
Now, whether or not he would be in your life for eternity shouldn't be the question. The question really should be; are you genuinely interested with what's happening with this person's life? Do you genuinely take care and concern for all his troubles and happiness? Can you empathise with him?

omg you really hit it right on the nail. I feel like i've totally missed this perf chance of fulfilling all sorts of r/s goals, cuddles, kissies and quality time together. Yet i don't really know if im able to commit into this which i don't know comes across as a need or a want.

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Recently, a guy that i've rejected many times before got attached and i'm feeling a lil jealous. I'm kinda confused rn cause the reason i rejected him was that our personality didn't really clicked. But why am i feeling like this rn? I don't want both of us to get hurt and i'm sad that he left. HALP

Because it's normal, what you're feeling. Your logical mind obviously knows what's wrong, but your emotional doesn't.
Emotionally it can be a myriad of different reasons:
- you feel like you 'missed a chance'
- loneliness
- a want
- sexual curiosity
- mere infatuation
- genuine attraction
It takes experience — life experience — and wisdom to know how to toe the line between logic and emotional. Even then, it's not infallible.
I'm not saying don't make mistakes... make it. Take risks. That's how you learn... but also think, think and think.
What do you really want?

I was at a public pool in the changing area and saw a guy walk out of a cubicle while there's another person inside the same cubicle. The 2nd person only came out mins later thinking that there's nobody. However, I was still there and he got a sheepish look. Wat m I supposed 2 react in the future?

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The same way you react when something is none of your business.
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(Cont)But at some point of time in history ppl were pretty much burned on the stake for these 'sins'. Btw by 'unfair' rights for pedo at the moment I'm referring to pedos being forced to be registered (in the US) & cannot live near schs. Dyou think these b abolished in the future too?

Children are not consenting adults.
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A friend recently posed me this qn : pedophiles are also asking for similar rights as LGBT community. They feel that they should not be penalized for their attraction to kids, using 'freedom of love' as a cause. What are your thoughts? Of course it'd be wrong to compare homosexuality to pedo (cont)

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http://thefederalist.com/2015/04/28/im-gay-and-i-oppose-same-sex-marriage/ If you have time can read this, it is quite an interesting perspective. But, I feel that the purpose of gay marriage is to show that we are as equal and deserve the same rights as other couples.

Aiden
I think many of his points can be countered just as easily. His stance is marriage is in place for the procreation of children, which we of course know for now that if such, then marriage is not necessary either.
It depends on what marriage means to an individual. To me, it's more symbolic than anything, plus government benefits. It validates your commitment to a partner for life, and the government supports you in that.
Gay marriage in the end won't affect me in any way, simply because I'm one of those gay men who don't intend to get married anyway. But I see the benefits of such symbolism in place. If anything, it gives a sort of reason for gay men to commit, that there is the possibility of the 'end goal' of having a family with their partner, for example.

Is it true some of the NS officers are gay and they have sex w the boys ?

Why not? You put a bunch of hormone-raging young men in close spaces for long periods of time, things are bound to happen eventually.... even with straight boys.
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