Are you more a receiver or a giver? It's the Christmas season.
Receiver, really. I'm horrible at buying gifts. I'm known to never buy gifts.
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Is pre-marital sex is wrong, but gay marriage is not possible in SG context.
Might wanna check your grammatical errors and re write your question cause I've no idea what you're saying.
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Have you ever met any deaf guy in gay community before? :)
Actually, no. Interesting. I know there was a group of deaf guys in the scene once, but never heard of them again.
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How do one exactly expand his social circle in the gay community, apart from apps?
Actually go out and meet real physical people.
All I want for Christmas is _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ ?
Release.
Complete the sentence. Harmless Bitching becomes malicious when.......
The other person knows about it. LOL.
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Have you tried eating Chinese Glutinous Rice Balls (tang yuan) ?
Yeah a lot of times actually. Not my thing.
Do you have close friends with HIV? Do you treat them different after you got to know about their status?
Close, no, but I have friends who are HIV positive. A few really. I don't treat them any differently. We tend to have good conversations too.
Do you think people who follow your ask fm are "repeat customers" or do you think they mainly consist of people who come and go? You know in business 80% = regular customer 20% = infrequent customer.
Just answered your own question there.
"An obsession is not love." I think what you meant was "You're in love with the idea of being in love with him. But you're not in love with him" Spelling this out (to whoever) should help. Meow
That works as well.
Do you like Durians?
No.
Are you on the app "Secret"?
No.
Can you dj?
No. I'm actually musically impaired.
Gsc stands for what?
Gay SG Confessions. https://www.facebook.com/GaySgConfessions
What advice can you give to guys who are virgins to gay clubs or the night/clubbing scene in general?
Gay clubs used to be the place other gay men go to find dates and hook ups as it is the only place where gay men can be open about their sexuality. It is no longer the case. Gay clubs today are coming to represent simply a place to mingle and hang out with friends.
A few general rules:
- Don't be rude. Whether it's to the staff or other clubbers, be nice to each other.
- Have a budget for the night. This means your cover charge, your drinks (1 glass ~ $15, 1 jug ~ $40-50, 1 bottle ~ $150 and above), and your cab fare home (Tanjong Pagar to Yishun is $25). It's cheaper on drinks when you're new as you get high (and drunk) faster, but more expensive as you build tolerance towards alcohol.
- Drink responsibly. Pace yourself. Do a glass, and wait a while. If you think you're fine, go have another if you want to. You need to be sensitive to how your body is reacting to the alcohol. Too many times I see kids lying across the sidewalk or puking their bellies out and shitting their pants because they went in too fast, too hard. You should know when you're high, when you're tipsy, and when you're drunk. Each person is different.
- Dress nicely. I don't mean wear a suit or designer apparel. I mean at least take some effort to groom yourself. Clean your face. Have neat hair. Make sure your shirt is ironed and fits your body, your pants are not baggy or loose. It's not about 'being fake', it's about respecting yourself enough to look good and presentable.
- If someone tries to pick a fight with you, just apologize and walk away (or to the nearest club staff just in case). There is no need to fight. You're gay. Gay men don't throw fists. We're too fabulous for that.
- Certain cliques and individuals can be quite averse to strangers talking to them out of the blue (like me) so don't be too affected by it.
- Be very aware of your surroundings. Gay clubs are generally very safe, and I would argue much safer than other clubs, but always check your valuables, and always be aware that nobody takes advantage of you when you're drunk. These cases are rare nowadays, but they can happen.
- Along the same lines, while Singapore has a strict and effective no-drugs-allowed law, you need to keep your drinks with you in other cities such as Bangkok. Drugs are a real problem there, and it's too easy for someone to slip a pill into one of your drinks when it's unattended. But again, I reiterate, Singapore does not have this problem, and I vehemently denounce the use of hard party drugs.
- Of course, the gay clubbing scene can be an extremely fun place for a night out or two. You'll make friends eventually, too.
Be safe, and plan ahead.
A few general rules:
- Don't be rude. Whether it's to the staff or other clubbers, be nice to each other.
- Have a budget for the night. This means your cover charge, your drinks (1 glass ~ $15, 1 jug ~ $40-50, 1 bottle ~ $150 and above), and your cab fare home (Tanjong Pagar to Yishun is $25). It's cheaper on drinks when you're new as you get high (and drunk) faster, but more expensive as you build tolerance towards alcohol.
- Drink responsibly. Pace yourself. Do a glass, and wait a while. If you think you're fine, go have another if you want to. You need to be sensitive to how your body is reacting to the alcohol. Too many times I see kids lying across the sidewalk or puking their bellies out and shitting their pants because they went in too fast, too hard. You should know when you're high, when you're tipsy, and when you're drunk. Each person is different.
- Dress nicely. I don't mean wear a suit or designer apparel. I mean at least take some effort to groom yourself. Clean your face. Have neat hair. Make sure your shirt is ironed and fits your body, your pants are not baggy or loose. It's not about 'being fake', it's about respecting yourself enough to look good and presentable.
- If someone tries to pick a fight with you, just apologize and walk away (or to the nearest club staff just in case). There is no need to fight. You're gay. Gay men don't throw fists. We're too fabulous for that.
- Certain cliques and individuals can be quite averse to strangers talking to them out of the blue (like me) so don't be too affected by it.
- Be very aware of your surroundings. Gay clubs are generally very safe, and I would argue much safer than other clubs, but always check your valuables, and always be aware that nobody takes advantage of you when you're drunk. These cases are rare nowadays, but they can happen.
- Along the same lines, while Singapore has a strict and effective no-drugs-allowed law, you need to keep your drinks with you in other cities such as Bangkok. Drugs are a real problem there, and it's too easy for someone to slip a pill into one of your drinks when it's unattended. But again, I reiterate, Singapore does not have this problem, and I vehemently denounce the use of hard party drugs.
- Of course, the gay clubbing scene can be an extremely fun place for a night out or two. You'll make friends eventually, too.
Be safe, and plan ahead.
He was the first gay person I fell for. I told him "I love you" and he told me I didn't know what love was. Why is letting go such a difficult task?
I hope you don't see my reply as playing down on your feelings.
At a certain point of time you need to understand the difference between love and an obsession.
An obsession is not love.
At a certain point of time you need to understand the difference between love and an obsession.
An obsession is not love.
http://thoughtcatalog.com/jordan-tyler/2014/05/we-didnt-date-but-youre-still-my-ex/ It's been a year. I've tried everything. Visit places that reminds of him till I'm numb. Talking about it. Telling myself if I love him i'd let him go. But it's not working. He's still on my mind. Help.
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Hahaha, it's okay! I totally get it. I identify as an introvert too,, but I oddly find making small conversations with total strangers quite thrilling. Probably a habit I picked up on my travels. Perhaps the next time, if and when I see you, I'll just pluck up the courage and wave at you! :)
You know, funny thing I've actually bared my most private of thoughts with strangers at the bar.
There was one time after Play, I sat with a middle aged Indian man at the staircase of Maxwell facing the temple and we just spoke about our most intimate fears. It was liberating. I said things I don't ever tell my closest of friends.
I guess it's the same thing over here. I like that it feels like I'm talking to a stranger. Sometimes when you put a face to something you start judging.
Well okay, next session I guess.
There was one time after Play, I sat with a middle aged Indian man at the staircase of Maxwell facing the temple and we just spoke about our most intimate fears. It was liberating. I said things I don't ever tell my closest of friends.
I guess it's the same thing over here. I like that it feels like I'm talking to a stranger. Sometimes when you put a face to something you start judging.
Well okay, next session I guess.
Do you believe in health/life insurance?
Yes. I'm covered.
do you know gsc admin personally? like he's your friend?
We started off just like everyone else. I didn't know who the admin was, and one day he approached me with his real account.
I guess we had a lot of things in common, one namely being our genuine interest in the gay community. I guess I could call him a friend, and we do speak in private every now and then. I admire his zest and passion.
I guess we had a lot of things in common, one namely being our genuine interest in the gay community. I guess I could call him a friend, and we do speak in private every now and then. I admire his zest and passion.
do you know why is gsc coffee sesh suddenly not at starbucks anymore
You would have to ask the admin himself. I cannot answer this question.
what do you mean you should go on a date haha, how do you find a date
Would you believe I'm actually hard pressed to actually commit to a date? I'm afraid of dating.
pho stop is frequented by gays right
While it's true it has a gay following, Pho Stop caters itself to the expatriate office crowd and serves people of all sexualities and age groups. Most of their clientele on weekends are straight working adults. They tend to enjoy the bar above and its cool outdoor space.
i feel like going to the gsc coffee session but i'm only 18 and i'm not exactly 100% gay. i'm hesitating because i don't want to go if everyone there are adults and i'm the odd one out
Last Saturday when I went to the GSC session the age group was 16-24. I felt like a dinosaur.
These aren't your typical gay clubbing scene guys. They're kids. You might actually be surprised.
These aren't your typical gay clubbing scene guys. They're kids. You might actually be surprised.
So when are you finally going to get your room all setup... Given that you have no curtains isn't that a bit kinky when you are walking the dog in your room?
I've been rather stupidly busy this year, and I'm rarely ever home other than to rest and recharge for the next day. So maybe my room will take quite a while. I'm hoping come new year once the festive season is over do I get it done just in time for CNY.
And yes I've actually gone to the opposite block and looked into my window. It's very very obvious that anyone who has ever bothered can see all that I'm doing inside it.
And yes I've actually gone to the opposite block and looked into my window. It's very very obvious that anyone who has ever bothered can see all that I'm doing inside it.
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