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What do you look for in a guy (other than the dictionary)

A compassionate heart and a head thirsty for knowledge.

Yes anon, most penises also look the same. What he has, you have, and I have it too!

I had a long period of epiphany when it dawned on me that every male person I saw on the street had a penis.

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Do you consider your dick bug? Do average malays have big ones?

Most penises are generally around the same length regardless of race. Plus or minus an inch or so.

if there is a "gay scene", shouldn't everyone be accepting of each other. why is there pink dot when they don't accept their own community (bitching about someone etc) and what makes up the "gay scene" even? The popularity game? Dramas? I am straight and I saw your profile on my ask.fm tl.

They gay community is made up of a diverse group of people much alike common Singapore society. Just like common society, it has a whole range of opinions and perspectives. There is no one 'head' of community. One one hand you have the apathetic gay man who cannot be bothered with politics, and on the other hand you have die-hard gay rights activists obsessively waiting for the next drama to jump on.
Pinkdot is an organisation on its own with its own goal and message. It does not represent everyone. Many people believe it does simply because Pinkdot is very prominent.
When someone says 'gay scene' it usually means the more prominent or popular groups and individuals at Tanjong Pagar bars and clubs. It doesn't necessarily represent the whole gay community either.
Why don't we all simply accept each other? It is because we're so diverse, but also ill-informed and ignorant of the person beside us who is slightly different. I see the irony, and it's bothered me all the time.

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Could you explain? Why, and how. Like, why did you see the need to. Also, given your religion, wouldn't it be easier pretending to be heterosexual? Why didn't you, and when you came out, what was it for you?

Before I left for Singapore, I sat down and thought about my future. I knew I didn't have any interest for marriage, my parents won't be around forever and I didn't want to depend on any of their wealth or credits. This started the long desire to be independent. I had to contain all I needed for life into one very person; myself. Being comfortable in my sexuality was one of the results of it. If I couldn't accept myself, who can?
I am not Muslim. Homosexuality had actually very little to do with me renouncing the religion. I went through a very long process of figuring out where I stood in life when it came to values, and decided I cannot accept any kind of culture or edict that ostracised those who were not of 'the same kind'. I had no interest in protecting someone just because we shared a common trait... for example race, sexuality or religion. If it is not ethically right, then it simply isn't. Very simple.
It would have been more difficult to live with myself if I had to pretend to be heterosexual. I was not happy, and didn't understand a lot on why I had to like girls just because.
When I came out, again, it was a breeze. My parents and relatives have a lot of things to say, naturally. I didn't bother about the opinions of my relatives since they aren't even involved in my life. Their opinions are irrelevant. My parents resorted to simply sweeping it under the rug as the years went on.

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how is it you're so open about your sexuality despite all the factors? (family, religion, Singapore, friends, expectations)

At one point of time in my growing years, I realised if I didn't stand up and fend myself, nobody would.
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Can you trade the pun with the dictionary 😔

What if we combined both? You can go blow the dictionary.

No and stop making me check the dictionary

I won't force you.
Unless you want me to. My dict...ionary is easy to use. Do you want to borrow it?

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