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Hi! Aku mau nanya maaf. Aku kembar, aku gay sedangkan sodara kembar aku aku tdk tahu. kemungkinan besar atau kecil apakah sodara kembar saya gay atau tidak ya kak? Iya sih nothing is impossible but..... :( yaallah

Studi bearman dan bruckner (2002) dengan sampel 289 kembar identik dan 495 kembar non identik menunjukkan bahwa angka kecocokan genetis terkait homoseksual pada anak kembar hanya berkisar di angka 7,7% untuk kembar identik laki2, dan 5,3% untuk membar identik perempuan.
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jawaban yg anda berikan sangat absurd dan membuktikan bahwa anda sendiri pun tidak mengerti dengan jelas mengenai homoseksualitas, dari apa yg saya baca dari jawaban anda, anda setuju bahwa seksualitas seseorg dipengaruhi lingkunganya, lalu apakah anda percaya bahwa homoseksualitas dapat disembuhkan

inoooniii’s Profile Photoaisyah mustika
-_-) //
Pertanyaan anda kali ini hanya menunjukkan bahwa anda sama sekali tidak membaca, memahami, apalagi mengerti.
;3
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jadi apabila penyebab melencengnya seksualitas anda di sebabkan oleh gen masing masing berarti tidak mungkin akan muncul ketakutan jika kita dekat dekat dengan org dengan homoseksualitas kan? lebih masuk akal apabila ketakutan otu disebabkan dari sesuatu yg berasal dr pengaruh lingkungan

inoooniii’s Profile Photoaisyah mustika
Melencengnya seksualitas anda?
*inhale* *exhale*
Baiklah, ketika Anda membaca kembali jawaban pertanyaan ini, silakan memastikan bahwa kata masuk akal dalam kamus anda juga termasuk logis dan sistematis, bukan loncat loncat seperti sekarang.
Ketakutan/fear/apapun yang anda maksud disini memang dipelajari dari lingkungan. Bentuknya adalah sikap. Tidak sama seperti ketika anda takut jatuh dari ketinggian atau takut ketika melihat laba laba. Bayi pada dasarnya tidak takut dengan ular, tapi mereka diajarkan untuk takut. Anda pada dasarnya tidak takut dengan badut, tapi ada proses yang mengajarkan anda untuk takut dengan badut.
Silakan membaca lebih banyak ;)
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dan sangat tidak masuk akal bila anda menyatakan bahwa homoseksualitas disebabkan oleh gen. karena pada dasarnya tujuan hidup makhluk hidup ya untuk reproduksi. sedangkan dengan adanya homoseksualitas keturunan tidak akan bisa dihasilkan kan?

inoooniii’s Profile Photoaisyah mustika
Dear, you're trapped in the idea of procreation. Reproduction as a center meaning of Human being. Really?
Regardless of sexual orientation, what would you say on someone who can't or who chose not to reproduce?
If you need us to verify your answer, we won't. We'll challenge your mind to think further.
Anw, have you go to the lab to check your genes so you're being 100% sure about your sexual orientation? Or did you conduct a comprehensive longitudinal study /experiment to prove that is wrong?
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is homosexuality caused by your genes or your environment? can you explain from the scientific view? because i doubt it's because of your genes

inoooniii’s Profile Photoaisyah mustika
If you didn't read the theory / explanation that we give before, you're asking our view on whether the dress is blue black or white gold just because you don't (want to) believe.
Let's think deeply about your question, by giving you another question. We won't verify any.
If you're expecting that homosexual is something that you learn from your environment (we called it nurture), how could you explain pansexual, bisexual, and the rest of it? How will you explain, why you're afraid that someone will turn convert someone into homosexual (just because you're near or you have an homosexual acquaintance) rather than thinking that he won't be gay/ will turn into heterosexual because the majority is?
La la la. ;3
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Eh, itu yang nanya tentang homophobia, udah pernah baca artikel jurnalnya Adams, Wright & Lohr (1996) yg judulnya "Is homophobia associated with homosexual arousal?". I laughed my ass off reading that article. p.s. they use penis circumference as one of the dependent measure ;)

You can read the happening article from New York Times about Straight, Gay, or Lying, about Bisexual erasure. Penelitian Bailey (measurement by penile plethysmograph - measuring erection in penis) yang akhirnya diprotes karena penarikan konklusi yang salah (arousal as sexual orientation).
Sebaiknya membaca jurnal nya langsung. Wright is quite credible dalam pengukuran ttg homosexual harusnya. Kalau associated, related, correlated, relationship, kita harus dapat mengartikan kata kata tersebut dengan tepat.
Korelasi contohnya, adalah hubungan, namun bukan sebab akibat / pengaruh. Korelasi hanya melihat bahwa ada hubungan yang signifikan atau tidak antara 2 variable / gejala. Misalnya ada hubungan antara perokok dengan impotensi dilihat dengan cara menanyakan apakah pengidap impotensi merokok atau tidak sebelumnya? Trace back. Bukan menyuruh orang tertentu yg tidak merokok untuk merokok selama sekian tahun dan dihitung sampai ia mengidap impotensi.
Nice share, anw. For the homophobia scale from Riddle, yang paling menarik adalah menemukan bahwa Acceptance dan Tolerance, masih merupakan bentuk sikap negatif (homophobic).

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Saya tiba-tiba lihat akun ini di timeline saya, dan suka sekali :D Berbagi pembelajaran tentang seksualitas dan juga gender di tengah masyarakat yang pemikirannya masih berkutat pada 'lelaki dan perempuan normal' Setidaknya, sedikit banyak orang jadi mengerti :)

grthpanggabean’s Profile Photopuanlunar
Hi hi. Yes, but we're wider than that. How about going through our blog again and see. The illusion of having, for instance, or make up and gender. Seru loh membaca sejarah make up dan relasinya
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Halo. Apa kabar? Saya mau tanya, saya berusia 21 tahun dan sudah menikah. Untuk seorang perawan yg melakukan seks pertama kali ternyata tidak mudah bagi saya. Sehingga saya merasa penetrasi yg dilakukan suami kurang sempurna. Tetapi bisakah saya memiliki kesempatan hamil? Terimakasih :)

Hi. You can consult to your personal doctor for this pregnancy plan. But we'd like to help you a bit
Kami tidak memahami kalimat penetrasi yang tidak sempurna. Konsepsi terjadi bukan karena penetrasi yang sempurna atau tidak, melainkan pertemuan antara sperma dan indung telur, sehingga dapat dilihat bahwa potensi kehamilan/konsepsi tentu ada. Namun apabila yang menjadi garis bawah bukanlah konsepsi kehamilan namun relasi dan komunikasi dalam aktivitas seksual dengan pasangan, sebaiknya kamu mengkomunikasikan hal tersebut dengan pasangan.
Tell your partner (not criticised) how do you feel, what do you think of this, what you assume, and how you both can handle or fix that ;)
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-> included myself as a part of LGBT too. Aku cenderung bingung kenapa aku menerima mereka karena mereka harus ditolong (selama ini aku mengira mereka seperti terkena suatu sindrom, even it's not), dibanding aku menerima mereka sebagai seseorang yang normal. Thanks for the explanation :)

2. We'd like to explain about Riddle scale of homophobia. They were developed by Dr. Dorothy Riddle, a psychologist from Tucson, Arizona.
The scale is frequently divided into two parts, the 'homophobic levels of attitude' (first four terms) and the 'positive levels of attitude' (last four terms)
Homophobic Levels of Attitude
Repulsion: Homosexuality is seen as a "crime against nature."  Gays/lesbians are sick, crazy, immoral, sinful, wicked, etc. Anything is justified to change them:  prison, hospitalization, behavior therapy, electroshock therapy, etc.
Pity: Heterosexual chauvinism.  Heterosexuality is more mature and certainly to be preferred.  Any possibility of "becoming straight" should be reinforced, and those who seem to be born "that way" should be pitied, "the poor dears."
Tolerance: Homosexuality is just a phase of adolescent development that many people go through and most people "grow out of."  Thus, lesbians/gays are less mature than "straights" and should be treated with the protectiveness and indulgence one uses with a child.  Lesbians/gays should not be given positions of authority because they are still working through their adolescent behavior.
Acceptance: Still implies there is something to accept.  Characterized by such statements as "You"re not lesbian to me, you"re a person!"  or "What you do in bed is your own business." or  "That"s fine with me as long as you don"t flaunt it!"
Support: People at this level may be uncomfortable themselves, but they are aware of the homophobic climate and the irrational unfairness, and work to safeguard the rights of lesbians and gays.
Admiration: It is acknowledged that being lesbian/gay in our society takes strength. People at this level are willing to truly examine their homophobic attitudes, values, and behaviors.
Appreciation: The diversity of people is considered valuable and lesbians/gays are seen as a valid part of that diversity. People on this level are willing to combat homophobia in themselves and others.
Nurturance: Assumes that gay/lesbian people are indispensable in our society. People on this level view lesbians/gays with genuine affection and delight, and are willing to be their allies and advocates.
Riddle's analysis has been credited for pointing out that although 'tolerance' and 'acceptance' can be seen as positive attitudes, they should actually be treated as negative because they can mask underlying fear or hatred (somebody can tolerate a baby crying on an airplane while at the same time wishing that it would stop) or indicate that there is indeed something that we need to accept, and that we are the ones with the power to reject or to accept.

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I'm not sure if I am a bisexual or a pansexual. I can tell the difference between them, but I don't know which is to define my orientation. can you tell something to.. I don't know, help me? and how people claim themselves as one, I wonder? weird question, I know. sorry, haha :p

It wasn't weird at all. The first step, the very first step is to understand that love knows no gender. *uhuk* and you understand that the thing that you love is the person, not the sexual orientation or so. But if you need guidance to understand (because as we said before, classification and categorization helps people understand), you need to read and understand yourself first. Being reflective and open to yourself, accepting any possibility. Sexual orientation and identity is in your head (and heart). It's not a quick 5 minutes yes/no question. It's a long life process. Which label fits you and makes you comfortable the most? Hope it helps.
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Hai kak:) Kalau boleh tahu, apakah admin dari akun ini anak UI? Jurusan apa ya kalau boleh tahu? Karena kakak saya adalah alumni UI hehe. Terimakasih hehe

DianaAristy’s Profile PhotoFlowers Addicted
Hi hi Aristia. Jika kamu butuh menghubungi kami, silakan kirimkan request melalui email kami, ya.

Hei, boleh tahu di mana ruang sekretariatan kalian? Atau di mana kami bisa menemui kalian untuk diskusi? Atau layanan diskusi hanya disediakan melalui media sosial?

maulimauli’s Profile PhotoMaulidina Fatharani
Hi, ruang diskusi kami tak terbatas. Kamu bisa menghubungi kami kok, hubungi saya kami lewat alamat email ui.sgrc@gmail.com dan kita bisa janjian di UI dan sekitarnya sambil ngopi ngopi manis. ;)
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Oiya min, boleh minta disertakan referensi ketika menjawab pertanyaan2 gak? biar reliabel aja gitu

Reliable refers to the repeatability of findings.
Repeatability.
Maksud kamu, kredibel, Non?
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Why do we have to label everything?

Human mind to categorize things to make it easier to recall. That's why we classify, categorize, give it a label so next time we need to recall that specific thing/phenomenon, we can address it as it is and to discriminate one and another.
What's been missing is not why we need to label things or so, because no label is a label too, but we should highlight that each label or naming is neutral, equal.
Red, blue, black, grey, or something in between is neutral. Cup, mug, glass have something in common. The word good or bad or something in between should be seen as neutral until people put specific use (plus value and purpose).
The main question would be : why we need to judge or discriminate other just because we have a different taste and different way to classify?
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Saya diperkosa, sabtu lalu. Hari ini saya merasa tidak enak badan dan ada ciri-ciri kehamilan di diri saya. Saya takut sekali dan tidak mau org tau saya sudah diperkosa. Min, bisakah kehamilan terjadi secepat itu? Saya mohon jawabannya, saya sudah googling tapi tidak puas.

Hi Anon, we're more concerned on how you feel and your well being related to this case. We recommend you to read this following info related to counseling dari Yayasan Pulih
•Sistem: 
1. Layanan ini bukan live chat, kami menyediakan waktu untuk menjawab e-mail konseling pada hari Senin, Rabu, dan Jumat.
- Pertanyaan yang masuk hari Senin dan Selasa akan dijawab paling cepat hari Rabu
- Pertanyaan yang masuk hari Rabu dan Kamis akan dijawab paling cepat hari Jumat
- Pertanyaan yang masuk hari Jumat, Sabtu dan Minggu akan dijawab paling cepat hari Senin
2. Konseling (cerita, keluhan dan curhatan) dapat dikirimkan lewat email pulihcounseling@gmail.com dengan ketentuan sebagai berikut:
- Subject atau judul e-mail adalah: Pulihcounseling Nama (boleh nama sebenarnya atau inisial atau nama samaran), jenis kelamin/gender, usia. Contoh : Pulihcounseling Nana, Perempuan, 19 tahun.
- Isi cerita, keluhan, curhatan dan pertanyaan bisa diceritakan pada badan e-mail.
• Kode Etik: Yayasan Pulih menjaga kerahasiaan identitas dan masalah klien kami.
• Gambaran Permasalahan: Berikut adalah contoh-contoh tema yang bisa Anda ceritakan kepada kami, yaitu masalah-masalah psikologis yang dirasakan sehari-hari seperti permasalahan dengan:
- Pertemanan
- Penyesuaian diri
- Keluarga
- Pekerjaan
- Pasangan/ pacar
- Kejadian-kejadian traumatis
- Masalah emosional
- Dll
• Konselor
Tim Konselor/Psikolog yang menjawab adalah psikolog yang berkompetensi dan konselor yang sudah terlatih di bawah supervisi psikolog-psikolog Pulih.
Please, do.

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Wow sabar ya menghadapi anonnya yg masih dibutakan nuraninya. Sebagai alumni UI gue berandai-andai kalian sudah terbentuk ketika gue masih kuliah dulu. Kalau kalian sendiri apa pernah mendapat tentangan dari organisasi keagamaan di UI atau dari pihak kampus gak? Thx & good luck :)

Alkupra’s Profile PhotoAlkupra
Tantangan untuk kami, mostly technical. (and financial?) that we need to work extra hard because we need to consider several things like cost (for renting a room in campus, and you know, all the administration cost).
But.
We didn't have a heart to stop doing what we're doing now. Because we love it. And we know that others need it. No matter how hard it would be, in the future.
And we'll work 50 times harder.
.
.
.
.
*smiling widely*
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Hello, I've read all the writings on your blog (and also your answers here) and I love them all (the latest in particular ehe, nicely written). Keep up the good work in enlightening us, kakak kakak! Have a nice weekend!

Thank you thank you!
Below the blog post, you can see the share button. Twitter, Facebook, and Google +. It's just a click away.
Sharing is caring, therefore alleviating the impact and access. Educate more ;3
Thank you so much!
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hai selamat malam, efek dari menonton film fifty shades of grey, apakah BDSM itu termasuk sexual abuse? bisa minta journal yang membahas tentang BDSM secara genetik? terima kasih

MammaMed’s Profile PhotoMammaMedusa
Hi. Actually we want to explain it a bit. But why don't you just jump into our blog and see our newest article about 50sg?
Go through http;//SGRCUI.wordpress.com
It's nice and well written. Drop your comment!
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Jadi keputusan resmi SGRCUI adalah komunitas yg pro-LGBT? Lebih baik kalian ganti nama dgn yg lebih menampakkan ke-pro-LGBT-an kalian. Jgn membuat orang salah kaprah dgn mengajari mereka tp diam2 mengajak mrk supaya pro-lgbt. Jangan menipu masyaraka, dimanakah moral kalian wahai mahasiswa yg pintar?

Wut.
Hi, Anon.
Have you read our mission statement?
SGRC UI
Strives to provide a safe environment for the entire UI academia and all members of the community to promote, educate, and develop programs related to sexuality, reproduction, and sexual orientation issues.
Provides adequate educational infrastructure and facilities, sufficient information, advocacy services, and work together to create an open environment to support the entire UI academia related sexuality, reproduction, and sexual orientation issues.
Conducts and provides education, social services, supports, and resources to raise awareness of the problems that occur in the community related to the misconceptions about sexuality, reproduction and sexual orientation issues.
Supports the mission of the University of Indonesia as an international university by supporting and invigorating research activities, specifically in the study of sexuality, reproduction, and sexual orientation and develop sexuality-related information center to support the university library archives.
Builds relationships with other organizations and communities in the development of individuals and communities as well as cooperating in the nation’s educational effort.
Hope you understand ;3
Atau begini saja:
SGRC UI mengusung kebebasan preferensi dan berekspresi selama hal tersebut tidak bertentangan dengan hak asasi manusia, dan tidak mengancam pribadi atau orang lain baik secara psikis maupun fisik.
SGRC UI juga menentang segala bentuk diskriminasi dan kekerasan terhadap siapapun dan dalam kondisi apapun.
Apakah kami kurang jelas dan dirasa kurang cerdas? Kami rasa tidak demikian. Kami sudah mengemukakan mission statement kami dari awal, yang sudah kami paparkan dengan jelas. Sehingga kami tidak menipu siapapun ;)
Jika Anon tidak menemukan jawaban, silakan dibaca kembali.
Jika Anon lupa, silakan merujuk pada kepanjangan dari nama SGRC UI yaitu
Support Group and Resource Center on Sexuality Studies, Universitas Indonesia.
Terima kasih, ;3

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Hi min. Have you read this news? http://m.detik.com/news/read/2015/03/03/160426/2848289/10/fatwa-mui-pelaku-seks-menyimpang-bisa-dihukum-mati I want to hear your thoughts on this :)

Yes, thank you for the link. Let us clear this a bit. ;D
Dari segi bahasa, kata fatwa punya akar kata dari afta - yufti - ifta’ (أفتى - يفتي - إفتاءاً), yang artinya kurang lebih adalah menjawab pertanyaan orang. 
Fatwa sendiri dalam bahasa Arab artinya adalah "nasihat", "petuah", "jawaban" atau "pendapat".
(Highlight all the "" words - jawaban, pendapat)
Yang disampaikan oleh seorang mufti atau ulama, sebagai tanggapan atau jawaban terhadap pertanyaan yang diajukan oleh peminta fatwa (mustafti) yang tidak mempunyai keterikatan.
(Highlight tidak mempunyai keterikatan)
Dengan demikian peminta fatwa tidak harus mengikuti isi atau hukum fatwa yang diberikan kepadanya.
(Highlight tidak harus mengikuti)
(kenapa peminta fatwa? Fatwa memang harus diminta. Karena fatwa bentuknya pertanyaan, dan meminta fatwa/memberi fatwa artinya meminta/memberi jawaban /tanggapan)
Hal itu, disebabkan fatwa seorang mufti atau ulama di suatu tempat bisa saja berbeda dari fatwa ulama lain di tempat yang sama.
(Highlight berbeda, layaknya berbeda opini/pendapat)
Semoga menjawab.

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