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A portal to another world opens in front of you. You don’t know how long it will stay open or if you’ll be able to get back after you go through. What do you do?And which world would you choose ? A reminder , you might not be able to get back again !

Run away, because I do not want to be an isekai protagonist.

The best movie for you is...?

Are you asking me what my favorite movie is, or my favorite kind of movie?

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Do you know anyone who hates shopping?

Not particularly. Then again, I don't know too many people to begin with.

What's the chance of getting your reply if I am unknown?

Pretty decent, I’ll answer most questions I get here.
Tell ya what: Since people like sending me asks these days, I’ll make it a thing to answer them every Sunday.

What are your favorite pizza toppings?

I've answered this before a long time ago here, but ok. Plenty of sauce, tomato, and what usually goes on an everything pizza.

What first comes to your mind with the word 'Marriage'? 🌚

A happy feeling. That's all I can describe.

What do you like in life?

Good, in-depth conversation with people who think a lot, delicious food, exploring places by myself, plenty of time to be lazy, getting someone to understand something as much as I do (in regards to school), books, internet access, tea and sweets, and cuddles with my man.

How are you feeling?

I'm stuck in a dorm room with no AC and it's 93 degrees F outside, you take a guess.

If your crush has fallen for someone uglier than you does that mean you have a less chance or more chance ?

Ok first of all, I'm worried about you anon. I know firsthand you can't control who you fall in love with, and if your crush is truly happy with this other person, that's great. People are allowed to pursue their own happiness first. There's also more to love than external appearance. I would hope you're mature enough to understand that. Best of luck on your romantic endeavors.

What is your favourite attribute about yourself???

The way I geek out over things. I'm also pretty cute.

What is the most embarrassing thing u have ever done?

It's embarrassing enough that I'm not telling you. >:3

On a scale of 1 to 10, how well do you sing?

6-7? I haven't ever been coached, and school choir was years ago. But I think I'm decent.

What's the most peaceful place for u ?

In my room alone on a quiet, lazy weekend. Preferably with quiet or no neighbors.

Are you a person with cold hands and warm heart or person with warm hands and cold heart ? 😁

I can be both.

What is your opinion of love? Is it permissible for them to do what they want, or are there red lines that they shouldnt skip?

This question has me worried, so if you're in an unsafe relationship, please look up crisis or abuse hotlines for your country/area. If you're in the US, you can text HOME to 741741.
As for the question, boundaries are an important part of healthy relationships. These are different for every couple, so all parties should communicate their boundaries and desires, and clearly understand those of the other. People aren't mind-readers, and if the other person is dismissive of your concerns, that's a red flag.
Some people may not like to be touched. Others may not like certain topics. These are ok, and YOU decide what lines should not be crossed. A healthy relationship allows each person the freedom to live their own life and the mutual abiding of each other's boundaries. So, to answer your question, it's more complicated than that. You shouldn't let someone walk all over you, especially if they're encroaching on something you've explicitly asked them not to do.
I'll use my relationship as an example. In the early stages of our relationship, I did not want to be touched a lot and in certain places or times. Only when I became more comfortable with him and made my desire for touch clear would he oblige. I knew he wanted to get his hands on as much of me as he could almost right away, but he held back, listened to my concerns and desires, and my boundaries shifted in time. And I'm grateful I have a significant other who knows how to treat boundaries and consent.
In my opinion, hard red lines are doing things that could endanger anyone, and any kind of abuse (physical, emotional, sexual). These are signs you and possibly the other person need help, fast.
Love can be an extremely rewarding thing. But don't stand for uncomfortableness or abuse, for fear of being single. Having self-respect can get you to great places.

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