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Is it wrong to cohabit with your partner before marriage? (No sex involved, both still virgins)
hey dear,
firstly one will say that living outside marriage is a sin because the two are not married and committed themselves to God before embarking on the stage to live together
the fact that two people cohabit and dont marry is very much likely to invite sin because they are living together and always around each other the flesh that hasnt been renewed will try to make them both weak to sin.
as opposed to a married couple who move in to together and get intimate that is okay because before God sex is marriage and the two took the right steps to do so.
cohabiting someone before marriage doesnt automatically mean the two are right for each other and may even cause them to split up because they thought they were for each other and rushed into something that could come later..
on the flip side in your case u may say because youre both virgins will be strong enough but u dont know how weak the flesh will be on u when youre both living together there may come a time when and if u both become impatient and get carried away...
personally i wouldnt advise cohabiting before marriage i would get to know the person court them and marry before moving in together because that way you have done it right in God's eyes. cohabiting is the wordly way to rush being with the person. living together doesnt determine marriage
hope this helps x
firstly one will say that living outside marriage is a sin because the two are not married and committed themselves to God before embarking on the stage to live together
the fact that two people cohabit and dont marry is very much likely to invite sin because they are living together and always around each other the flesh that hasnt been renewed will try to make them both weak to sin.
as opposed to a married couple who move in to together and get intimate that is okay because before God sex is marriage and the two took the right steps to do so.
cohabiting someone before marriage doesnt automatically mean the two are right for each other and may even cause them to split up because they thought they were for each other and rushed into something that could come later..
on the flip side in your case u may say because youre both virgins will be strong enough but u dont know how weak the flesh will be on u when youre both living together there may come a time when and if u both become impatient and get carried away...
personally i wouldnt advise cohabiting before marriage i would get to know the person court them and marry before moving in together because that way you have done it right in God's eyes. cohabiting is the wordly way to rush being with the person. living together doesnt determine marriage
hope this helps x
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Wow then this is very deep but no sis you cant go to hell for loving someone of a different faith to u.. who knows maybe through you he may convert to be a child of God.. But I see how strongly u feel about this so keep praying over it to seek God more in it and follow your heart and happy
I'm a Christian woman and I've fallen in love with a Muslim man and I have no idea what to do. Any advice? How to deal with family/ church etc?
this is a very sensitive area especially as he doesnt follow your walk in christ.. speak abour it with God pray over it and speak to the guy about it. one thing is for sure when God brings two people together there is no confusion or doubts. so you need to think long and hard about this one and how u feel you can manage the family and church life. but before anything go to God first and put down the pros and cons to the love u have for the guy to help see things clearly.. hope this helps
Im 26 and married, im a devoted christian and remained a virgin. Because of financial difficulties the honey moon was postponed but after 6months we're going..i know im going to loose it and im ready plus I love my husband..hows the best way to deal with first time sex
awww this is amazing bless you sis so happy for you and how strong and committed you have been, truly a blessing.. intimacy is different for everyone and im sure itll be different experiences u get from those who speak about it. the best way to handle it is to tell your husband your concerns and work around it that way and ask him to have patience and understanding for you as you may be ready but being a first time quite nervous. its showing your love to him so embrace it and pray about it hope this helps x
Thankyou soo much for your response (Jewish Girl converting to Christanity) i know my transformation will be amazing.. The advice was perfect I'll reach out more often !
awww bless you sis we thank God for timely messages. im so happy to know that it helped you. amen to that and please do God bless always here x
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youre a good friend/sis thats for sure because there are women who will act on it and feel its okay to do so. thats very wrong on his part he doesnt deserve u. and your loyalty to your friend is key. tell her what he is doing and set him straight once and for all to see how wrong it is and if that doesnt set him straight do not approach him and go your way and pray over it knowing you handled it the best way possible hope this helps x
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there was a good reason you broke up with him sis and if you strongly feel this way you have to put your foot down and set him straight once and for all then cut it off and work on you. ignore calls texts etc and pray for God to handle it and that way itll be settled. but sis be strong and know who u are and pray more for help to handle it hope this helps x
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i totally get what you mean and i can see myself in thay situation once upon a time.. when things go bad we are fast to point the blame to the other person forgetting that people make mistakes and there are solutions to things.. but in the heat of the moment we over react in pain and let our emotions run wild.. it sounds toxic and you both spliting up was no mistake.. you both need the time apart as hard as it might be..
Hi i am Jewish but i'll soon be converting to Christianity because I believe there's truth in Christ, as you many now Judaism and Christianity is very much connected. Any advice on being a good newly Christian
hello so sorry for the late reply, thats amazing we thank God for this new move.. i want to encourage you to build on a intimate relationship with Him in all that you do to learn also to pray daily and read His word more and more and learn to apply wisdom to all that you face and have faith put Him first always and fast to grow in spirit hope this helps
Im a christian but another girl who's a muslim has taken intrest in me. Personally I dont think inter-faith relationships work. How can I let her know without being to hard since girls can be very emotional
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Im 17, gave my life to Christ in November.. Am i too young to want a relationship thats christ-centered?
Hey sweetie I hope u are well, this is truly amazing we thank God for this bold step of yours. No no no youre never too young to give your life to Christ. look at Jeremiah in the bible He was a teenager when He was called to serve and even though he doubted it God equipped Him and used Him. so dear youre never too young so keep on going pray study the word and know God for yourself itll be worth it and dont listen to those who say youre too young God can use anyone hope this helps plz keep me updated somehow God bless u x
Im in love with my partner, he's God fearing, faithful and charming. Im really looking to marriage but dont want to make it blatant, how should i go about it.. Is dropping hints a good idea
Hey sis apologies for the late response, first of im happy for you that youre with someone like that and i pray God continues to be with u both in all u do.. BUT the fact that you are looking to marry doesnt mean he is too, or that he is even ready for it he may still need to grow more in christ and u too but as a woman it is not our place to drop hints to make a man marry us he has to want to do it without the pressure and hints. it says Proverbs 18:22 "He whofinds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from theLord." so pray over it to be sure he is the one and if so work on your patience itll happen ok hope this helps and always here x
Can guys ask questions too or is this just for females loll
Hey dear nah its not just for women but men too.
Favourite bible verse?
uhmm have quite a few.. will say proverbs 31:26 is the top of my list> She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
As in why would God bless me when I've allowed people to just take somethin over and over again. I probably should have done this privately but I feel you helping me here might help someone else too.
sis God doesnt look at people and hold back blessings because of mistakes that we make or made, that would defeat the purpose of the bible and his promises for us and forgiveness too. so dont ever think that way. he knows all that happens ans is our way out He doesnt punish us..vulnerable to mistakes but doesnt mean that cant be changed. so long as u see your errors repent and allow yourself to heal it will no longer be a damaging vicious cycle. learn to work on u and your thinking and allow God in to show u a better life and ways of doing things because our might alone cant help change us we need to have his help too. its okay sis i understand and i admire your transparency. always here hope this helps xx
I was sexually abused as a child & I'm 21 but fell into so much sexual sin in my teens. Im very active in Christ, repented. I want to really grow but knowing what I've done just upsets me at times as I feel ill never be able to have successful relationships
sis im so sorry to hear that and i will pray for u. i cant say i know what its like because i havent experienced that, but one thing i can tell u is that its a process of healing. it was not your fault and God wants you to stay close to him he wants to heal u but your negative thoughts is getting in the way. its good youve repented and continually growing but dont be hard on yourself fast pray and read the word for God to pour into your spirit to release the bad negativity holding u back and to be filled wih his reminders of his promises for your life. sis there is a right guy for us all if you tell a guy all youve passed through and he walks away or doesnt accept it hes not for u because the right one should support love u and take u closer to God not put u down or doubt u. thats where the spirit of discernment comes in to discern the good and bad ones who approach u. sis your past wont hold u back from what God wants u to receive in your future never!!! work on renewing your mind and work on u praying for u hope this helps x
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Thankyou for your reply especially the bible passage it really reassured me that my life can be made new through Christ, I'm really going to stop holding back !
AMENNNNNNNNN TO THIS thats what i love the boldness and confidence to know that evwn though u made such mistakes in the world you will not make them in the kingdom but be better and wiser and receive all blessings attached to u.sis you will get there keep on going you are special and called for a great purpose
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