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Are you ready?
ready for what God wants to do next. yes i believe so
Who was the last person whose phone number you added to your contacts?
a sister in Christ
i have met a guy who i know will treat me so good but my insecurities plays apart for me to push and fall back and not fully commit..i know there is something wrong with me lol is there any advice you can give me?
aww bless you sis... i can relate to you. but one thing I want to encourage you with is that you should pray even more read the word more and be led by what God is telling u to do on this matter. dont be led by thoughts on how the guy will treat you. ppl can change at any moment so its important to not caught up that deep especially in early stages.
we can think that about a guy but doesnt mean he is also the one God intends for us to be with. so try not to get too attached to him.. get to know him but guard yourself
work on you and how u feel and are towards guys. youre being honest nothing wrong with you or doing that. take it slow and involve God in it. whatever youve been through to make insecurities an isssue pray..
hope this helps x
we can think that about a guy but doesnt mean he is also the one God intends for us to be with. so try not to get too attached to him.. get to know him but guard yourself
work on you and how u feel and are towards guys. youre being honest nothing wrong with you or doing that. take it slow and involve God in it. whatever youve been through to make insecurities an isssue pray..
hope this helps x
do you think insecurities play apart of two people coming together as one in a relationship?
thats a really interesting Q.. food for thought..
On one side insecurities can drive the two apart if not handled the correct way they can fall out and argue and trust issues etc will be one of the causes of them breaking up because one cant handle the way the other is and once it causes a strain on the relationship can be hard to go back to how it was..
on the flip side in your case insecurities can be one thing both have in common whilst developing feelings for each other. for example the guy and the woman have both been cheated on and so both have trust issues (although guys are not known to show emotion and pain,quite silly) its something that has effected them both and are able to reach a common understanding of how to help each other, open up, heal and move forward..
So my answer to your Q will be yes
hope this helps x
On one side insecurities can drive the two apart if not handled the correct way they can fall out and argue and trust issues etc will be one of the causes of them breaking up because one cant handle the way the other is and once it causes a strain on the relationship can be hard to go back to how it was..
on the flip side in your case insecurities can be one thing both have in common whilst developing feelings for each other. for example the guy and the woman have both been cheated on and so both have trust issues (although guys are not known to show emotion and pain,quite silly) its something that has effected them both and are able to reach a common understanding of how to help each other, open up, heal and move forward..
So my answer to your Q will be yes
hope this helps x
does love cost a thing?
To me when im asked that i think of love in the world. the fake cheap love in most instances.
love that involves how much material things u have. how much money. the latest labels. the cars the home etc. to fill the void..
theres a consequence for love in the world its impure and most times causes more pain than good with intentions of going into it for ulterior motives. comfort and happiness but the wrong way.
but in the kingdom love blossoms is pure special and headed in Christ with a fruitful foundation not based on material things sex/sins and deceit...
love that involves how much material things u have. how much money. the latest labels. the cars the home etc. to fill the void..
theres a consequence for love in the world its impure and most times causes more pain than good with intentions of going into it for ulterior motives. comfort and happiness but the wrong way.
but in the kingdom love blossoms is pure special and headed in Christ with a fruitful foundation not based on material things sex/sins and deceit...
how would you know if you found the right one?
amos 3:3 "can two walk together unless they be agreed?"
to agree, God will be at the centre..
-prayer confirmations
-the courting stage being fruitful
-God will confirm to you both in ways that u both connect in spirit to agree your both for each other. he may do this in dreams through ppl the word of God or a vision.
-but its important to be in the position to receive and hear from God what to do
hope this helps x
to agree, God will be at the centre..
-prayer confirmations
-the courting stage being fruitful
-God will confirm to you both in ways that u both connect in spirit to agree your both for each other. he may do this in dreams through ppl the word of God or a vision.
-but its important to be in the position to receive and hear from God what to do
hope this helps x
do you think there is someone for everyone?
I believe Ive answered this before so ill just add to it now..
Yes I believe there is someone out there for everyone.. and if its believed that there isnt thats prob because ppl who have been hurt have positioned themselves due to painful experiences to make themselves believe that there is no one out there for them at all. missing out on being treated right. here amos 3:3 wouldnt apply because it says "can two walk together unless they be agreed?" so if u remain bitter and against relationships how can u position yourself to receive and walk united with the one for u? youll always be bitter unless you change your thought process..
God formed adam and eve that union, partnership and love is meant to be passed amongst us to build and unite with the one God intends us to marry. to learn from mistakes as opposed to copying them.
pray have patience and position yourself. at the right time itll happen.
taken a whole step further one can look at
apostle paul in..
1 Corinthians 7:7-8: “I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.” Notice
here it sheds some light on pauls thoughts that some people have the gift of singleness and some the gift of marriage. Although alot of ppl marry its actually not necessarily God's will for everyone. (very deep and mouth dropping to me tbh??) Paul, did not have to worry about marriage etc and/or family. He devoted his entire life to spreading the Word of God. "He would not have been such a useful messenger if he had been married." ??
hope this helps. its a very sensitive matter x
Yes I believe there is someone out there for everyone.. and if its believed that there isnt thats prob because ppl who have been hurt have positioned themselves due to painful experiences to make themselves believe that there is no one out there for them at all. missing out on being treated right. here amos 3:3 wouldnt apply because it says "can two walk together unless they be agreed?" so if u remain bitter and against relationships how can u position yourself to receive and walk united with the one for u? youll always be bitter unless you change your thought process..
God formed adam and eve that union, partnership and love is meant to be passed amongst us to build and unite with the one God intends us to marry. to learn from mistakes as opposed to copying them.
pray have patience and position yourself. at the right time itll happen.
taken a whole step further one can look at
apostle paul in..
1 Corinthians 7:7-8: “I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.” Notice
here it sheds some light on pauls thoughts that some people have the gift of singleness and some the gift of marriage. Although alot of ppl marry its actually not necessarily God's will for everyone. (very deep and mouth dropping to me tbh??) Paul, did not have to worry about marriage etc and/or family. He devoted his entire life to spreading the Word of God. "He would not have been such a useful messenger if he had been married." ??
hope this helps. its a very sensitive matter x
Who is your biggest mentor?
God is my everything first and formost.
here on earth im blessed with a mentor as a reflection of God's character to equip and lead
here on earth im blessed with a mentor as a reflection of God's character to equip and lead
Are you able to play any musical instrument?
used to be able to play the violin
How do you learn best: by listening, watching, reading or doing?
mostly by reading
If you opened up a restaurant what kind of food would you serve?
variety of african dishes
What's the first thing you notice in a person of the opposite gender?
Hygiene levels
What do women talk about when there are no men around?
lol whether men are there or not we will still share what we want to unless its confidential
What are your thoughts about marriage and divorce?
owww thats an interesting one. have a lot to say on that.
Genesis 2:24- Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Proverbs 18:22- [Whoso] findeth a wife findeth a good [thing], and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
Hebrews 13:4- Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
marriage is a special unity between two people who love each other and bought together by God. its soo important that God leads them and equips them in the courting stage to build on that in marriage. a marriage not built in christ will crumble. God needs to be present in it all and the two need to continuosly work on themselves too
divorce now...
I dont approve of divorce tbh unless in extreme cases one of them continually cheats and refuses to change and be a better partner. but then on the flip side ppl can change and Ive been raised to not look at divorce as a good thing but to really understand what marriage is ans its importance and overcoming..
again everyone is different but i wouldnt wqnt divorce to be our portion its quite toxic to go through..
hope this helps x
Genesis 2:24- Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Proverbs 18:22- [Whoso] findeth a wife findeth a good [thing], and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
Hebrews 13:4- Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
marriage is a special unity between two people who love each other and bought together by God. its soo important that God leads them and equips them in the courting stage to build on that in marriage. a marriage not built in christ will crumble. God needs to be present in it all and the two need to continuosly work on themselves too
divorce now...
I dont approve of divorce tbh unless in extreme cases one of them continually cheats and refuses to change and be a better partner. but then on the flip side ppl can change and Ive been raised to not look at divorce as a good thing but to really understand what marriage is ans its importance and overcoming..
again everyone is different but i wouldnt wqnt divorce to be our portion its quite toxic to go through..
hope this helps x
What are the important keys to a successful relationship between a man and a woman?
when the world speaks of a successful relationship they base it on money and things of cheap value. they dont realise the work that needs to be put into a relationship. this is where the breakdowns happen. they think to love is having material things and sex. they feel its all fun and cheating is okay.. so many messed up ways..
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now in the kingdom for it to be successful..
"can two walk together except they be agreed?"
when two ppl come together in the kingdom they have agreed to let God and be led by Him.
- the foundation is built in christ
-they both share their concerns talk it out
-they fast and commit to God in all things
-they master reading the word and lean on it
-they love each other not in sin but purity connecting to God
- they respect and honour each other because as children of God u disrespect each other u disrespect God.
-support each others visions and never make the other choose Godly work or them..
list is endless. a relationship needs God and the word to prosper
hope this helps x
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now in the kingdom for it to be successful..
"can two walk together except they be agreed?"
when two ppl come together in the kingdom they have agreed to let God and be led by Him.
- the foundation is built in christ
-they both share their concerns talk it out
-they fast and commit to God in all things
-they master reading the word and lean on it
-they love each other not in sin but purity connecting to God
- they respect and honour each other because as children of God u disrespect each other u disrespect God.
-support each others visions and never make the other choose Godly work or them..
list is endless. a relationship needs God and the word to prosper
hope this helps x
Share something you're grateful for today.
waking up
What is your definition of a man?
owww thats a very interesting Q.. bless u.
I have many ways to define a man.
Ill list a few.
to me hes wise
bold
a leader
discerns
hears and acts according to the spirit
prays and takes his walk seriously..
he was created in the likeness of God to the perfection of his nature, in knowledge, righteousness, and holiness is his ways and he has dominion over all the inferior creatures. is humble and protective.
He has God's law within him, and obeys it. hes not perfect makes mistakes but never lets pride and sin win he knows his identity in christ and lives up to that daily. no matter how tough it gets he wont give up..
he will love support cherish and honour his woman support her calling and lead her closer to God.
thats some of my points for how to define a man :)
God bless hope this helps x
I have many ways to define a man.
Ill list a few.
to me hes wise
bold
a leader
discerns
hears and acts according to the spirit
prays and takes his walk seriously..
he was created in the likeness of God to the perfection of his nature, in knowledge, righteousness, and holiness is his ways and he has dominion over all the inferior creatures. is humble and protective.
He has God's law within him, and obeys it. hes not perfect makes mistakes but never lets pride and sin win he knows his identity in christ and lives up to that daily. no matter how tough it gets he wont give up..
he will love support cherish and honour his woman support her calling and lead her closer to God.
thats some of my points for how to define a man :)
God bless hope this helps x
How many people do you consider your "best friends?"
youre either a sister or an acquantance to me. that friend title is dangerous
How much would it cost to buy your love?
my love doesnt come with a price tag.
Do we become happy only when we meet the one we love?
no because our happiness is not to be found in others.
What are you busy with today?
ministry planning and prep for a project
What is one thing you will never do again?
be led by a man
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