I don't ship SwanQueen, but I see where it's coming from. I accept this ship. Do you ever have trouble with people who don't ship SwanQueen at all?
I do try to explain why I ship them to people who don't ship it or didn't know it was a thing (fans who aren't on the internet). Usually they are okay I with the ship, even if they themselves don't ship it. They see it and acknowledge it. They may not ship it but they see it. They only time it has been an issue is when they say they're okay with it, but they're afraid to say "gay." If you're afraid of the word, you are not okay with it. Sorry, this was a long response.